Hello Ozn,
Thanks. Silly me. I mixed up two families. It was Julia Ann not Mary.
Births Jun 1855
Dixon Julia Ann Wokingham 2c 340
Julia ended up in Queensland:
Marriage # 1885/C01128 Dixon Julia Ann Morley John Patterson
Death # 1902/C0763 Morley Julia Ann Robert Dixon Sarah Pearce
This is a possible death for her father but age is out a bit:
# 1909/B11165 Dixon Robert - - ** born England aged 75 years
I don't know his 2nd wife's name so I don't have her death in Queensland. So far I can't see Julia in the shipping records. It's not this one to Victoria:
DIXON ELIZTH I AUG 1863 PEGASUS B 222 004
DIXON ELIZTH 27 AUG 1863 PEGASUS B 222 004
DIXON JULIA 3 AUG 1863 PEGASUS B 222 004
Found a Julia DIXON born Hurst, Berkshire working as a cook domestic servant in Willesden, Middlesex in 1881 so it's possible we only need to check shipping records between 1881 and 1885.
Regards,
Dave