thanks Gibbo, leefer and P.Risboy for responding, in answer to your questions, All aunts and uncles are dead (all grandparents died before I was born) My sister has applied for the death cert, still waiting!! Then at least we will know what she died of as she was only 24!! My mother was 10 months old and an only child. I am waiting for 1911 census so I can see if grandma had any siblings as her maiden name was white( how common is that) and I cannot afford to trawl through all the whites on pay to view.:'(
Thanks again.