Thats brilliant news........sorry i didnt reply earlier have been on holiday in Greece..........you are very welcome i have made a huge family link a part of the family that im sure my mum didnt know about it turns out the person that had posted the message about Barhams from Brightlingsea was my mums 1st cousin unfortunately my mum passed away October 2007, and as far as i was aware she was the last in the line if u understand what i mean..........so there was me thinking i couldnt tell her about it until my sister pointed out it was probably mum guiding me in the first place

maybe she is trying to tell me im not on my own like i thought i was i do have family
Hope that others read this thread and realise that there is ALWAYS family
Ath xx