Thanks for looking. I was hoping there would be an Edward T age 15 or 16 with Harriet. Oh, well.
This would fit:
Deaths Sep 1882
Bone John 48 Greenwich 1d 510
Carpenter is not a merchant. Well, seems that carpenter didn't live long enough to become the merchant as listed in his son's 1904 marriage as deceased. However pob and age both fit in 1881.
Looking for John BONE a merchant born 1834 Greenwich who died before 24 Dec 1904 and father of an Edward T born about 1875 Greenwich. Only one Edward T born about 1875 Greenwich in 1881 but father = Edward.
There seems to be only a birth for Edward Thomas son of Edward. Only a marriage for Edward Templecombe, son of John. And, only one Edward T death but which cousin?
Lots of John BONEs and lots of possible marriages so I'll have to try another way.