Info rupert posted on Alexander Milne thread, concerning Julia. The below info is on post #19 on the below link.
http://www.forum.familyhistory.uk.com/showthread.php?t=28124&page=2
Will post it here as well.
Australia, Marriages, 1788-1935 Transcription
First name(s) Alexander
Last name Milne
Birth year 1816
Residence New South Wales, Australia
Marriage year 1842
Marriage date 31 Oct 1842
Spouse's first name(s) Julia Anne
Spouse's last name Behan
Marriage place Scotts Church, Sydney, Cumberland County, New South Wales, Australia
Town -
County -
State New South Wales
Country Australia
Groom's age 26
Groom's birth date 1816
Bride's age 23
Bride's birth date 1819
Record set Australia, Marriages, 1810-1980
Category Life Events (BDMs)
Subcategory Marriages & divorces
Collections from Australia & New Zealand
Rookwood Cemetery Transcription
First name(s) Alexander
Last name Milne
Age 53
Denomination OLD PRESBYTERIAN
Birth year 1816
Death year 1869
Death date 21 March 1869
Inscription native of Aberdeen, Scotland. Erected by Julia in memory of her husb
Cemetery Rookwood Cemetery
City Sydney
State New South Wales
Country Australia
Plot Section 5 ROW 6
Plot number 438
Size 1
Record set Rookwood Cemetery
Category Life Events (BDMs)
Subcategory Deaths & burials
Collections from Australia & New Zealand