hi Ben,
this is a very long story.... ish,
basically I have a marriage cert that states James Larkin a licensed victualler, the marriage took place in London (paddington) in 1865. The bride was Irish so you can see my headache unfurling.....
to top it all, the couple that married in 1865 married again in 1869 to each other and she names someone else as her father, (and subsequently in her 3rd marriage) she names the same name on the third marriage as the second for her father.
confused? pull up a chair...lol