Dear Nicola
Richard & Susan WASHER had 4 children bapt in Ringmer between 1868 & 1877, the last being Lucy bapt 4 Mar 1877.
There is a prominent and interesting WASHER family in 19th century Ringmer, but I have not linked this family to it, and there is no Ringmer baptism for Richard.
Lucy WASHER, singlewoman, had an illegitimate son Charles Bert WASHER baptised at Ringmer 30 Oct 1897 but he was buried here on 12 Feb 1898, age given as 2 months. Lucy WASHER of Ringmer aged 24, daughter of Richard WASHER, lab, then married Samuel L. FOORD, a labourer aged 19, at Ringmer on Christmas Day 1900.
The 1881 census has Richard & Susan WASHER & 5 of their children in a cottage at The Islands, Ringmer Green, not one of the smartest addresses in the parish. Within the same set of cottages were the households of James WILLIAMS (Samuel's son) and a married laundry maid Ann TRIGWELL with no evident husband. A hundred yards away in cottages on North Road, Ringmer Green, were two adjacent TRIGWELL households, including William & Ellen TRIGWELL with a son, a miscellaneous grandson and old samuel WILLIAMS, Ellen's father, now in his 80s.
This census says that Richard WASHER was 48 & born Ringmer; Susan 43 & born Lewes; the two eldest sons, Samuel & John, both ag labs like their father, aged 21 & 18, both born in Lewes. Then we have Susan (10), Thomas (6) & Lucy (4), all born in Ringmer.
By 1891 Richard & Susan WASHER have moved to 'Back Green' [= North Road, Ringmer Green] and they are right next door to William TRIGWELL, now a widower, and his assorted three generation family. Another TRIGWELL family is two doors away. Richard & Susan WASHER are now both 54, born in Ringmer & Lewes respectively, and they have with them just Thomas (17) & Lucy (14).
By 1901 Richard WASHER is a farm cowman and has moved to Broyle Lane, Ringmer. He lived in a cottage about half way up the lane, on the west side. Richard was 66, his wife Susan 65, and again born in Ringmer & Lewes respectively. With him was his married son Samuel (aged 42, and a carter on the farm, born in Lewes) but not Samuel's wife (there is another story there; his wife is at Rushey Green), plus Richard's daughter Lucy FOORD (24) and son-in-law Samuel FOORD (20, farm carter, born Plumpton), plus also three TRIGWELL grandchildren, Susan aged 11, Maud aged 8 and George aged 4, all born in Ringmer. Quite a household. The TRIGWELL grandchildren are presumably Susanna Jessie (bapt 1889), Agnes Maud (bapt 1892) and George Leonard (bapt 1896), three of six children of William & Ellen TRIGWELL's son George Leonard TRIGWELL and his wife Annie or Fanny, who had been a Miss WASHER.
George Leonard & Fanny had been with his father on North Road in 1891 (when Richard & Susan lived next door), but I'm told they were in Laughton in 1901, and that they had more children after 1901. That comes, I think, from a descendant called Samantha Struthers. Anyone you know?